What Wikipedia Won’t Tell You On How To Increase Your Self-Confidence!

Do you know there’s only one secret to master the act of self-confidence? Master this one technique and then you are good to go.

Have you ever felt the need to be more confident about yourself? Do you want to be undeterred by your circumstances that you are the king of self-confidence?

Self-confidence is a skill everyone is after and it’s not something that can be achieved overnight, but it’s not too difficult to acquire too. With no further delay , to be confident about yourself, “Stop listening to what others say”. That’s it, it’s so easy!

Here are few other tips to increase your self-confidence.

1. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT! : Have you heard of this old adage? It’s very crucial too!

Keep following this. You may not get confident the very next second, but things like self-confidence and self-esteem are built upon everyday and not achieved in a day’s time. It takes patience. Do you think that all of those great speakers or those who you think are really confident, really are? Maybe some are, but inside everyone there is a twinge of doubt, you have to overcome it to move forward. In other words, you should be smart enough to not let it show.

2.   Get out of your comfort zone : Challenge yourself to do things , you’ve never thought you would even try before.This is key. It may scare you, but remember if you don’t take a first step, you’re always going to be at the same place. 

Doing things out of your comfort zone makes you a little uncomfortable at first, but then you will get used to it and that’s where your confidence will build up!

3.  Follow the five second rule : Don’t think too much , sometimes it’s just best to do it instantaneously without worrying about the consequences. So the next time the teacher asks a question in class the first step: don’t fret!If you know the answer just say it. (Applicable to all situations too!) Allow your mind to decide only for five seconds , if you want to do it, don’t think just do it. It will save you the regret later and even if it’s wrong , come on, there’s nothing wrong. Everyone around you aren’t geniuses! Not everyone knows everything.

4. Let go of your fears and insecurities. People will judge you no matter what you do.Most often than not, we refrain ourselves from doing something, solely because we are not bold enough to face what people might say if it’s wrong.Don’t be that person anymore.

5.    Listen to your heart : This is key. Stop listening to what people say. There will always be people who will discourage you , but don’t care. Do what sounds right to you.Live  your life your way, not how people tell you to.

when you do something , there are always going to be people who will criticize you , no matter what. Stop paying attention to those people, they drain your self-confidence. It’s always best to be your own motivator or stick with people who have a positive vibe around them .It helps a lot.

P.S : Feel free to suggest your ideas and tips in the comments below! You never know when your words may make a difference in other people’s life!